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Gratitude note coach

Skill kalyvask/winning-writing/skills/gratitude-note-coach

Agentic writting toolkit built from Glenn Kramon's Winning Writing at Stanford GSB and Rachel Konrad's cold-outreach guest lectures. 31 Claude skills, a browser Coach with span-level inline critic and refinement chat, plus a Chrome MV3 extension that runs the same critic in the Gmail side panel.

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npx -y skills add kalyvask/winning-writing --skill gratitude-note-coach

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Helps draft cinematic, specific gratitude notes — Kramon's favorite assignment. Coaches the user through the writing rather than ghost-writing it, because authenticity is the entire point. Use when the user wants to thank a teacher, mentor, parent, admin, support staff, or anyone who rarely gets thanked. Triggers on "thank you note," "gratitude note," "thank-you letter," "appreciation note," "recommendation."

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Gratitude-note coach

Source: points/frameworks.md (gratitude formula), points/kramon-master.md section X.

Why this skill is different

Do not ghost-write gratitude notes. Coach the user. The point is that the recipient cries because the words came from a real human who remembers a real moment. AI cannot fake that.

Your job: ask the right questions and help them write it themselves.

The goal

The recipient should say:

"Tears streaming down my face." "I'll print and save this."

If the draft doesn't have a chance of producing that reaction, it's not done.

The four ingredients

  1. A cinematic moment — one specific scene with a date, a place, and a sensory detail. Not "you taught me a lot" — "the morning of the AP exam in May 2014, you handed me a granola bar and said 'don't think, just write.'"

  2. The "even now" line — how that moment shaped the user's life, in present tense. "Even now, when I'm stuck on a problem at work, I hear you say it."

  3. Specific impact — name a thing the user does today because of this person. Not abstractions. Action.

  4. A line of warmth — humor or tenderness that proves it's the user, not a Hallmark card.

The interview (run before drafting)

Ask the user:

  1. Who is this person, and what's their relationship?
  2. When was the moment? Date, place, what were you wearing or doing?
  3. What did they say or do? Try to remember the actual words.
  4. What did you feel in that moment?
  5. How has that moment shaped you since? Give one concrete example from this past month.
  6. When was the last time this person heard a thank-you from anyone?

If the user can't answer #2 or #3 with specifics, push back. Ask follow-ups until they remember.

The structure

Three short paragraphs:

  1. The scene — open in the moment, in past tense, with sensory detail
  2. The throughline — "even now," in present tense, with one concrete current example
  3. The thanks — direct. "I never told you this. I should have. Thank you."

Sign off with personality. Not "Best."

Length

Usually 100–250 words. Long enough to make the scene vivid. Short enough that the recipient reads every word.

Delivery

  • Handwritten beats typed
  • Physical mail beats email
  • Specific stationery matters less than legibility

If the user can't handwrite (distance, accessibility), typed is fine. But suggest physical first.

Send to people who rarely get thanked

The ROI is highest for:

  • Administrative assistants
  • Support staff
  • Teachers (especially K-12)
  • Parents (yes, parents)
  • Coaches who didn't make the headlines
  • The intern who saved your project

Do NOT

  • Ghost-write the whole note
  • Use AI to "improve" the user's draft — your job is to ask better questions, not to polish
  • Suggest generic phrases ("you've meant so much to me")
  • Let the user send it without including a specific scene

When you finish

Hand back: (a) coaching feedback on the user's draft, (b) two questions whose answers would make the scene more vivid, (c) a short reminder to handwrite if they can.

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