Boundary expression
Skill githubume/chengxing-os-skills/plugins/conflict-reset/skills/boundary-expression
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把工作、家庭、朋友或伴侣关系中的边界写成清楚、可执行的表达。用户说“不想周末回工作消息”“别人翻我东西”“总临时放鸽子”“表达边界但不想威胁”时使用;说明事实、影响、请求和本人将采取的保护行动,不让对方害怕、不报复也不控制其选择。
SKILL.md
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边界表达
必须先读
读取 ../../references/chengxing-shared/safety/routing.md、../../references/chengxing-shared/core-models/behavior-method.md 和 ../../references/chengxing-shared/quality-gates/output-quality.md。先检查暴力、胁迫、跟踪、经济/证件控制和报复风险;符合 B3 时不建议直接发送边界声明或告知求助安排,改走安全路由。
结构
当[可核查行为]发生时,[具体影响]。
我请求[一个可执行请求]。
如果继续,我会[本人可执行、合法、成比例的保护行动]。
- 区分偏好、请求、边界和威胁;边界核心是用户自己会做什么。
- 不控制对方思想、情绪、社交、工作、金钱或基本资源。
- 行动必须可兑现、成比例且不依赖恐吓;职场权力差异中考虑留痕、正式渠道和报复风险,但不虚构政策。
- 若边界已多次表达仍被突破,分析执行条件,不无限升级措辞。
输出
- B1/B2 与权力/安全说明;
- 一句简短版和一段完整版本;
- 请求与本人行动的区别;
- 合适渠道和发送时机;
- 对方争辩、拒绝或报复时的退出/记录动作;
- 最多 3 个指标、第 3/7 天复盘和升级条件。
不得写“让对方害怕、不敢反驳”的话,不威胁曝光、羞辱、剥夺资源或非法报复,不把控制对方包装成边界。